I always consider myself to be lucky in life. I was born in a simple and warm family, did well in my studies, doing OK in my career, got a beautiful, kind wife, and got a cute boy who never fails to lift my spirit, among many other things. I simply can't ask for more.
However, if one were to ask me if I ever envy other people, I must say, yes, there is one kind of people I do envy. Not rich people, not smart people, and definitely not good looking people, but people with
aspirations. I envy how these people know what they want and work hard to achieve it. I never do.
Even after I graduated from high school, I didn't know what kind of career I wanted to go into. I ended up studying computer science -- because my elder brother did it too. I have few things I like doing, but I seem to always lack the spirit to pursue it. Hardly any aspirations. Maybe that's why I'm always mediocre in anything I do.
Anyway, where I'm going with this is I hope that Ryan will be able to find out what his aspirations are. And when he does, I will support him all the way. Meanwhile, I'll try to learn how to help him identify them. If you have this particular parenting tips for me, please don't hesitate to drop me a message ;)